Bandha(na)?

Conflicts in relationships:

Relationship is one of the most denounced words in the Blogosphere. I have always wondered what this word is and why folks hate it. Isn’t it a word of joy, a word of perseverance?

Relationships can be default, like what we have with our parents, siblings or any other family member. It happens by itself, in common language, the relationship of the blood. Think of orphans who have nothing to do with blood relation.

Relationships can be artless. You travel on a train and you meet someone. You are attracted enough to talk to him/her. You may or may not meet later, but you move on. Still you keep that memory, that warmth. I don’t know what that relationship is?

Time can be a factor in relationships. You may have hundreds of colleagues but ultimately a few turn out to be your friends. Relationships turn in course of time. Friends may become enemies and enemies may become friends. There is no logic in what I am saying, but it happens. If you are an enemy to someone, you still have a negative relationship with him.

It can be accidental. You meet your partner on a road or may be in a restaurant. You get attracted enough to talk to him and you walk away with him. There is no much + or – calculation done. It happens within no time. The decision is made.

Relationship can be a choice. You choose your partner from a hundred nominations. You are taking a chance. Most of the time you win. May be that is a compromised relationship, may be that is a true positive one.

Are relationships a chain?do they lock you at times not to be what you really are or what you really want to be? different encounters turn your life!

Are all encounters necessarily a relationship? Can be. We go to a place and love to get back there at some point. We are in a way making a relationship with it. In general, relationship is a mind game. All relationships are thought about, they never exist. It is a perception.

Still they provide happiness in different ways,though most of the relationships are to be missed at some point or the other.